This state of mind has been defined by a famous psychoanalyst Ceaser Storm.According to her an optimistic can have the life as he desires but their is nothing that a pessimistic can't achieve it.Infact there is no difference between an optimism & a pessimism .The real difference is this,that how they are making their efforts. This associate professor of psychology deptt. of Kentucki University has written a popular book"Breaking Murphy's law:How optimists get what they want from life-and pessimists can too". In this book she has differentiated between optimists and pessimists at large.
A general perception is, "If we are not optimistic we may not achieve our goal". But apart from this thousand of people have achieved their goal, though they were pessimistic in their thoughts. The reason behind it is that to be mere optimistic does not make you to reach at your destination.The main thing is that how much sincere efforts we've made to get what we desire.And always the person who has made sincere efforts gets the desired goal,Inspite of being pessimistic.It's true that an optimistic may have his desired goal more easily,because he is filled with hopes therefore his path becomes more comfortable. But the basic truth is this that after all he had to walk along the path.Seldom, An optimistic also miss his target because he is ready by heart but he couldn't put that much physical labour which is required to get on the target.Thus the infrence is that,we should be equally fit by mind and physic to achieve our target.The imbalance between anyone of the things turns into failure.
This article reminds me my interview,Where I had to face a volley of questions on optimistic and pessimistic attitude.This will also remind you the famous story of "race between hare and tortoise".So whenever you start towards a destination keep on moving with firm determination and dedication you will definitely reach at your destination.This is a real glory of life.Try it.......................
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